Ask Ashley: The Podcast

Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

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Ask Ashley: The Podcast

Still Pink in the Middle

February 01, 2026 • DearYoungQueen • Season 4 • Episode 20

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week diving into mental flexibility, emotional triggers, attachment styles, and why sometimes five minutes can change everything. It’s not all laughs, but it is a necessary self-check.

00:25 — Majoring vs. Minoring: Life Check-In

What are you majoring in right now, and what’s just a minor? The Ashley’s introduce a new way to measure how life is really going, and the conversation quickly turns surprisingly introspective.

10:54 — The Power of the Pause + Attachment Style Deep Dive

Sometimes emotional restraint, and a little silence, can be your strongest response. Ashley + Ashley unpack “the power of the pause,” controlling reactions instead of crashing out, and what happens when you finally stop overexplaining.

19:06 — Type A vs. Type B: Which One Are You, Really?

The Ashley’s question everything they thought they knew about their personalities. Are they truly Type A, or secretly Type B? From losing debit cards and ignoring low phone batteries to dishwasher etiquette, the girls unpack the habits that reveal how we’re really wired.

29:12 — Technology That Needs to Go Back in the Oven

Raise your hand if you’ve felt personally victimized by a printer. Printers never work when you need them to, but you know what might be worse? Bluetooth. The Ashley’s bond over everyday tech that feels half baked. If it only works half the time, put it back in the oven.

36:06 — It’s TV Time: Are Old Shows Better Than New Ones?

Ashley N is deep in her nostalgic TV era. From Homeland vs. House of Cards to Felicity, Dawson’s Creek, and The Americans, she makes a strong case for why the classics might still be undefeated.

39:50 — Question Time: Happiness, Faith & The Legacy We Leave Behind

Inspired by Angie Martinez’s signature questions, the Ashley’s rate their happiness, share what message they believe God would text them right now, and explore what legacy truly means.

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